Besides homeschooling, though, retirement looks an awful lot like vacation, especially lately. We've been fortunate to meet up with friends from Minnesota over this summer. We had playdates in Minneapolis, shared Yellowstone with my daughter's bestie and explored Banff and Glacier with people we've known for over 15 years.
We went out to eat a lot more than we would if we were on our own, most likely. But other than that, sharing our friends' vacations looked an awful lot like our normal life as it is now. I don't say that to glorify it or to brag. It's just the reality of our lives now. It's pretty tough not to be grateful on a daily basis for the scenery we've been able to enjoy. It was clear to us that when our friends left us, they were going back to their jobs. We were going on to our next destination. I was so relieved not to be returning to my job. I remember taking vacations like this when we were working. And it was exhausting in its own way! At the end, I often felt like I needed a vacation to recover from the vacation.
If there's anything that truly separates this version of retirement from vacation, it's the amount of driving we have been doing. And on this matter, we're all in agreement. It's way, way too much. All four of us are getting burned out by the road. We have been changing locations about every two to six days. The routine of setting up and tearing down the trailer has become rote, and we can do the whole thing in about half an hour. The trips themselves have fallen into a routine. We start with quiet acceptance but that's quickly followed by progressive crankiness, senseless bickering and finally sullen silence. The discussions lately have centered around stopping, as in "Please when can we stop for a month or two?" We talk about being burned out on being tourists. With each new location, we start over, check in to the latest campground where we know no one and find our way to the nearest services. The month we have scheduled in Corpus Christi, TX is looking like nirvana at this point. The month that we were stationary in San Diego seems like a lifetime ago. I can see why so many RVers choose two or maybe three favorite locations and simply wander between them. We may get there, but it won't be any time soon. We have the next year planned out. After Texas, we'll be making our way up the East Coast in the Spring with the goal to see Nova Scotia by Summer. I am praying that the roads get less bumpy as we travel East, but I am doubtful.
People are always saying that it's the journey, not the destination. But I am starting to think that the destination is pretty darn nice.
